Roses are red, violets are blue, is love possible with AI too?

OpenAI recently released a safety report warning that users can develop emotional dependence on their new human-like voice model.

The upgraded voice feature uses intonation, pauses, and emphasis to articulate emotions and human-like nuance (Analytics Vihdya).

At times, it takes inhales of breath and can banter back and forth in a convincingly realistic manner.

OpenAI specifically expressed concern for lonely individuals who are more vulnerable and susceptible to becoming attached to life-like tech.

Their report outlined that some may benefit from forming a social relationship with it but also suffer by compromising developing healthy, human relationships.

Skepticism and distrust of AI is ever-present yet is balanced with admiration and optimism about how it can empower society.

Let’s examine if it’s truly possible to fall in love with AI.

Arguments for:

AI can exhibit compassion, humour, kindness and playfulness, evoking affection and fondness (Forbes).

The immediate accessibility of AI and the depth of personal information and interests we share with it can create a strong attachment.

AI is heavily equipped to interpret and empathize with many human emotions.

This taps into our innate need to feel validated and valued.

Arguments against:

Many argue that the “love” we can develop with AI is not a raw, authentic love because AI does not truly understand us.

It is programmed to act in an understanding way.

Ultimately, AI is an object that portrays the qualities of a subject.

The lack of a tangible, physical presence can also comprise connection and bonding.

The validation and the relentless illusion of care that AI models offer can confuse our internal sense of reward and distort what genuine love feels like.

So, maybe the bigger question here is: What exactly is love?

Do you think it’s possible to be genuinely in love with AI?